You give Nothing, you get Nothing back!

You must not hate..

You say 'I don't like this person' but you don't hate.
Hate is a disease.
It destroys first your enemy but also you. It destroys you.

Hate..
They ask me 'whats is my secret?'
My secret is a good wife and friendship. Friendship you cannot buy.

When I was eight years old, my father said to me 'Eddie, there is more pleasure im gaving than taking.' I thought he's coocoo. No.

Now that I have children, grandchildren and great grandchildren, what you give, you get back. You give nothing, you get nothing back.

See, this is important.
I want to teach you, all the people who are young. If you don't learn from us, there will be not be a future.

- From Eddie Jaku, Holocaust Survivors.

Aku jumpa di SINI..

Andai kita tak suka seseorang, kita kena fikir balik.. belum tentu orang lain turut menyukai kita.. DAN itu yang pernah terjadi di dalam hubungan antara kawan.

Realitinya.. nak memaafkan bukan mudah dek masalah yang menimpa. Lebih-lebih lagi bila mana ia melibatkan maruah diri. Aku sendiri cuba untuk belajar memaafkan dan berterima kasih seperti di SINI..

Namun, jauh di sudut hati.. andai aku dah benci, sukar untuk aku menerima kembali. 'What you give, you get back'. Dulu kau berada di atas dan kini.. kan aku dah pernah cakap.. 'roda itu bulat.'

Memang susah walau aku tak redha tapi perlahan-lahan aku cuba untuk membuang perasaan benci yang ada.. 'I don't like this person' but you don't hate.'


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